| Location | Antrim |
| Age | 61 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 16/02/1947 |
| Date of Death | 05/08/2008 |
| Visitors | 1,271 since 26/10/2008 |
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Tommy, my wonderful husband of 20 years. The most gentle, kind and thoughtful man i have ever known. He was the love of my life and now sits in my heart keeping me living.
Tommy suffered with lung cancer for 2 years although he was sick for longer than that. He fought so hard against it and tried to carry on as if nothing was wrong with him.
He started building a summer house after starting chemotheraphy and this helped him cope so well with his illness. He fought a long hard battle and i admired him so much for that. He just didn't want to leave our daughter and i behind. He was so strong for us all. I miss him so much that it hurts, but i know he is in heaven looking down on us and guiding us. God bless my love, xxx
Our 4th Christmas without you..
Hi darling,
Gosh how i miss you. This year has been so much more difficult for me in the run up to Christmas. Although i am happy in other parts of my life, not a day goes by when i don't think of you and the way you made me smile. I still miss you soo very much and the pain is still very great at times.
I really hope you are happy up there and enjoying everything about heaven. They are soo soo lucky to have you.
I've been remembering all the lovely family christmas times we had, just the 3 of us. Taking turns to open our presents and seeing the delight on each others faces, how i miss those special times. I miss your smile soo much.
You would be soo proud of our lovely girl. She is all grown up now and doing very well in her job. I just know you are watching over us and guiding us. Thankyou for that darling.
I really can't believe this is our 4th christmas without you. Dad misses you very much as does everyone. You have left such a huge gap in all our life but your name is never far from our thoughts.
I love you with all my heart Tommy and no matter what path my life continues to take, my love for you will never fade.
God bless my darling Tommy. Miss you very very much.
Always in my thoughts and prayers. Forever in my heart.
Patricia xxxx
Another year in heaven
My darling Tommy,
Today its 3 years since you went to be an angel. Where has that time went? Its been long but yet short.
Jacqueline and I miss you as much as ever. There is not one day goes by without our thoughts being with you.
I hope you are happy in heaven and looking after everyone that is dear to us.
Everyone here misses you soo much and your name is mentioned often. We will never forget your dry humour, lovely blue eyes and great head of hair, but mostly the love and care you give to us all.
Time doesn't stop me loving you any less. You'll always be in my heart.
Always in our thoughts and prayers.
Forever in our hearts.
Lots of love my darling
Patricia xxxx
23rd Wedding anniversary
My darling Tommy...
Today would be our 23rd wedding anniversary. I feel sad that you are not here to share it with me and to celebrate the wonderful life we had together.
I think of you everyday and try to remember the happy times we shared.
You are always in my thoughts and prayers, and we will always be in my heart.
God bless my darling
Patricia xxxx
3rd Christmas without you
My darling Tommy,
Our 3rd Christmas without you and we still miss you as much as ever.
Think about and miss you everyday and would just love to have you here with us.
My tears still flow and my heart still aches and time doesn't make any differences to how much I love and miss you.
I pray that you are happy in heaven.
God bless my darling. I love you more than ever.
Always in our thoughts and prayers, forever in our hearts.
Love you always My darling Tommy.
Patricia xxx
2nd Anniversary in heaven.
My darling Tommy...
I just can't believe this is your 2nd year away from us, and honestly don't know how i have managed to get through without you.
Our wee house is so different now you are not here. We miss your wit and cheeky smile and how you could always make us think positive even in our difficult times.
Jacqueline talks about you soo much these days and i love that she can do that comfortably now. It has took a long time. She misses you soo much darling, as do I. She is doing really well and you would be soo proud of her. Your little girl is all grew up and is a lovely young woman.
Please continue to watch over us. We know you are near by all the time.
We love you as much now as ever.
Always in our thoughts and prayers. Forever in our hearts.
God bless my darling. XXX
Happy Easter in heaven my darling.
My darling Tommy..
Not a day goes by that i don't miss you. I would just love to have one last day with you. To be able to hold you close to me and hear your voice again would be the most precious thing every. Life is moving on as normal but its just not the same without you my darling. I talk to you all the time and hope that you can hear me. I know your watching over us and know that you will be proud of us for carrying on without you. Our girl is just the most lovely person. I am soo proud of her and know you would be too. Please continue to look over us and help guide us in our daily lives.
We love and miss you soo much darling.
Always in our thoughts and prayers. Forever in our hearts. xxxx
Happy Birthday darling.
My dearest darling Tommy....
Its your 2nd birthday in heaven and also your 2nd birthday without us to celebrate with you. Life is soo unfair.
We miss you as much as ever and it doesn't take a day like today to make us remember you any more or less.
Hope you are having a lovely birthday in heaven.
Always remember that we love you very much.
God bless my wonderful man.
xxxxxxx
2nd Christmas without you.
Good evening my darling in heaven.
Can't believe i am sitting here typing this message on what is our 2nd Christmas without you.
People say that time heals. I wish i found this to be the case. I miss you as much if not more than this time last year. Just because our lives are moving on doesn't mean that we wouldn't gladly change it all for a time when you were here with us again. I hope you are now well rested in heaven. Please continue to guide us in our everyday lives.
Always in our thoughts and prayers. Forever in our hearts.
God bless my darling Tommy.
I will love you always.
Patricia xxxxxx
A whole year without you
My dearesr darling Tommy,
I cannot believe it been a whole year since i last seen you alive. A whole year since i last heard you speak or held you in my arms. It breaks my heart when i think back to all the suffering you did. I'm soo sorry i couldn't take away your pain. I wanted to more than anything in this world.
Jacqueline and I miss you soo much that it hurts, but you have helped us move on with our lives as best we can. Give us the strength to get through today and continue to carry on with our lives.
We were truly blessed to have you as a husband and daddy and we will love you always and forever.
God bless you in heaven my darling. It will be a wonderful place with you up there.
Always in our thoughts and prayers.
Forever in our hearts.
Love you my darling xxxxxxxxxx
Tommy xxxx
You can shed tears that he is gone,
Or you can smile because he lived,
You can close your eyes and pray that he will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that he has left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him
Or you can be full of the love that you shared,
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember him and only that he is gone
Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on,
You can cry and close your mind be empty and turn your
back,
Or you can do what he would want: smile, open your eyes,
love and go on.
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